What is the cost of not living in alignment with your purpose?

freedom happiness mindset money values Jul 31, 2022

Are you living in alignment with your purpose? Pay attention to how this question makes you feel. What is not said, yet shows up as emotions in our body are just as important as the spoken words. 



Are you happy with your life? If not, what would make you happy? If you're not quite sure, that's okay too.

At this point of contemplation on happiness, I challenge you; how do you know what it feels like to be happy? Is it a fleeting feeling or a deep knowing? Have you felt an overwhelming sense of happiness?


If you felt resistance to the above contemplations, it is quite possible that a part of your life is out of alignment with your purpose and values.


I ask you, what is this misalignment costing you?


Is it getting in the way of:


  • Fulfilment?
  • Happiness?
  • Limitless living?
  • Financial abundance?
  • Contentment?
  • Are you using your most precious and irreplaceable resource of time to live intentionally in alignment with your values and true purpose?
  • Meaningful relationships? 
  • Personal growth?
  • Feeling ALIVE and on FIRE?
  • Knowing who you are and what you are here to do?
  • Being the role model you want to be for your children, where you lead by example and show them that is safe to be their authentic selves and follow their dreams?
  • A healthy mindset and positive mental health?


What else is missing from this list? I'd LOVE to hear from you in what other ways misalignment costs you.


Once you have the awareness, the next step is to get clear on what you want. Once you know what you want, it's much easier to start making changes to your desired life.


This is why clarity is critical; it is only once we gain clarity on what we want and don't want in our lives that we can move forward.


Without clarity, you are most likely feeling stuck or feeling yourself spinning in circles and not moving forward with your life. 



If you're unsure of what your true purpose is, here are a few signs that you're not living in alignment with it:



You don't feel fulfilled by your work.


Your work feels like a chore.


You're not using your natural talents and strengths.

You don't feel like you're making a difference.


You're not living in alignment with your values.

You're not taking care of your physical, mental, and emotional health.



How do I know this?



Because I have been there! I was in that place for almost 38 years!



I woke up most mornings feeling flat. Wondering if this is all life has to offer.



I thought it was because I wasn't in a healthy relationship, but the feelings remained when I left my ex.



Perhaps I no longer enjoyed living in Sydney, amongst the chaos and business of life?


I felt much better having a sea change in a quiet area, yet this feeling that something was missing remained.



Perhaps it was because I was in a toxic work environment, yet I was still feeling like this on maternity leave.



When I hit rock bottom with my mental health and had to rebuild my life, I discovered that I was not living in alignment with my values and purpose and therefore was not feeling fulfilled in life.



Not living in alignment with your true purpose can show up as feelings of dissatisfaction, emptiness, disassociation, and even depression.



Do any of these signs resonate with you? If so, what small step will you take today to start living in alignment with your true purpose? I'd LOVE to hear!



If you are unsure of the next step to take, I highly recommend giving yourself time and space to reflect on what truly matters in your life, what makes you feel good and the things that show up as resistance.



That's the beauty of our bodies; they do a great job telling us when we are out of alignment.


The issue is that the "noise" around us has these signals quietened, avoided or suppressed, yet it is one of the most powerful tools.



How can you bring some time and space into each day? Even 5 minutes to be with your thoughts and feelings. So don't analyse, just journal.



You’ve got this Mumma x


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